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Man, insofar that the headship is vested in him, stands in a position of precedence in
the man-woman relationship for the present economy (this not being mistaken with the
idea that he himself has any precedence, there being no respect of persons with God).
This position involves him in certain responsibilities and authority which woman is
expected to recognize under the term "subjection" (I Cor. 14: 34; Eph. 5: 22-24;
Colossians 3: 18; Titus 2: 5; I Pet. 3: 1-6). (The word "obedience" in the Authorized
Version of I Cor. 14: 34 and Titus 2: 5 is the same Greek hupotasso as in the other
passages.) For either man to fail to take this position allotted to him (Adam's failure), or
woman to usurp it (Eve's failure), can only mean a dishonouring both of the Word and
the Lord Himself. This is especially serious in the light of the fact that the relationship
between husband and wife is used in Scripture as a picture (perhaps a pale one) of that
between Christ and the church:
"Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the
husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church . . . . . Therefore
as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in
everything" (Eph. 5: 22-24).
The meaning of man's headship in specific terms will be interpreted in the lives of
those who seek the Lord's honour according to their understanding of their respective
positions before Him. Husband and wife will conduct their lives "as unto the Lord",
"in the fear of Christ" (Eph. 5: 21, 22 R.V.), and the knowledge that their relationship in
`one flesh' is a picture of Christ and the church, should add to the carefulness of their
walk.
With regard to the unmarried, difficulties have already been expressed concerning the
fulfillment of the positions of man and woman in their relationship to each other. Again
specific walk will be determined as before the Lord, and no godly man or woman will
have any desire to do anything which seems to detract from God's original intention in
creating "male and female" and allotting to them particular positions in His good
pleasure.
"Be subject to one another from reverence for Christ" (Eph. 5: 21 Moffatt).