The Berean Expositor
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men, chosen for their character in the home and loyalty to the truth, and were thus able to
take care of the church of God.
The Apostle now points out these characteristics to Titus and exhorts him to seek for
such and appoint them as leaders. Such leaders must be blameless (verses 6 and 7), the
meaning of which is expanded by the context and the items that follow, the husband of
one wife, and having faithful or believing children, not under accusation of riot or
disobedience. The phrase "the husband of one wife" can be interpreted in two ways:
(1) the opposite of polygamy; (2) only marrying once and having one wife, so that in
the event of the wife's death, the husband must not marry again.  Alford strongly
contends for view (2) though it is difficult to see why a man should be better equipped in
the Lord's work by not marrying the second time, unless the Apostle had the principle of
I Cor. 7: 32, 35 in mind. We know that polygamy was practiced by the Jews at the time
of writing this epistle and it may be this that is what is warned against. The Greek can
bear either meaning, but if the second is the teaching of the passage, then it would
certainly rule out many prominent Christian leaders of the present time.
Verse 6 goes on to stress the character of the home, `having believing children, not
accused of riot or insubordinate'. Paul had also stressed this in his first letter to Timothy.
Chapter 3: 1-7 largely cover the same ground as the context we are considering. An
overseer (bishop) must be `one that ruleth well his own house . . . . . (for if a man know
not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)". The logic
of this is inescapable. The manifestation of truth begins in the home, if a man cannot
shine there, he cannot shine anywhere for the Lord.
It is interesting to notice the words which are common to I Timothy and Titus.
Sophron, `of good behaviour' (I Tim. 3: 2) Sober (Titus 1: 8); me plekten, `no striker'
(I Tim. 3: 3; Titus 1: 7);  hiloxenon `hospitable' (I Tim. 3: 2; Titus 1: 8).  In both
cases "A husband of one wife" is stressed. Hospitality was an important Christian grace
in early times. The church was often found in the house and traveling Christians could
not resort to the houses of the heathen. The need therefore for hospitality on the part of
those called to lead was obvious. This is still an essential part of Christian witness today.
The burden usually falls more on the woman than the man, but in doing this as unto the
Lord, a sister in Christ is rendering a valuable Christian act which is not unnoticed by
Him.  "Do not forget hospitality, for by this some entertained angels unawares"
(Heb. 13: 2). "Use hospitality to one another without murmuring" (I Pet. 4: 9). Any
element of grudging or complaining spoils this important service in the Lord' sight. It
must be done willingly and gladly as unto Him.
The word sophron (sober) and its derivatives form a prominent feature of this epistle.
We tabulate them accordingly:
Sophron
1: 8. Sober.
2: 2. Temperate.
2: 5. Discreet.