The Berean Expositor
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Hospitality (philoxenia), "the entertainment of strangers" is urged upon believer more
than once in the epistle. Rom. 12: 10 and 13 unite "brotherly love" with "hospitality" as
does Heb. 13: 1, 2. One of the qualifications of the bishop was that he should be "given
to hospitality" (I Tim. 3: 2; Titus 1: 8), and I Pet. 4: 9 says: "Use hospitality one to
another, without grudging", for an element of unwillingness blights service to the Lord.
The onus of hospitality in our present mode of life often falls upon the woman. Here is
an act of acceptable service, as truly rendered to God as the prayer, praise and pulpit
utterance of her husband. Indeed, Heb. 13: 15, 16 shows that worship in the assembly
may be vitiated by the lack of consideration for others afterwards. The times for true
acceptable service are not only 11 and 6:30, but they may have as much to do with clean
sheets as with robes of righteousness, and in dispensing the bread that perisheth as with
the Word of truth.
We have had brotherly love and love of strangers (philadelphia and philoxemia). We
are now reminded of love that goes out to those who, though not present with us, need
our sympathy: "Remember them which are bound" (Heb. 13: 3). God is ever "mindful"
(same word) of man "and visitest him". We are neither to forget hospitality nor to omit
sympathy, for the full quotation of verse 3 is much beyond mere remembrance.
"Remember them which are bound, AS BOUND WITH THEM, and them which
suffer adversity, AS BEING YOURSELVES ALSO IN THE BODY."
This sympathy has been spoken of earlier: "Ye became companions of them that were
so used. For ye had compassions of me in my bonds" (Heb. 10: 33, 34). The intimate
relationship between believers has been expressed in I Cor. 12: 13, 14, 26: "Whether
one member suffer, all the members suffer with it." So sympathy goes out to those in
bonds, as bound with them, and to those in adversity, as being equally in the body. There
is much to be said for the interpretation that makes the passage equivalent to, "For you
also are still in the flesh, and liable at any moment to similar adversity".
The statement in verse 4 that marriage is honourable, and its most intimate
relationships undefiled, seems to have been necessitated by the presence of those who,
like the Essenes, taught that marriage should be shunned. The word "undefiled" in this
particular is noteworthy, for it occurs in but one other place, namely, in Heb. 7: 26,
where it speaks of our "undefiled" High Priest. This is a sufficient answer to those who
would impose celibacy upon God's ministers, and is a word in season for us on whom the
night of I Tim. 4: 1-3 is fast descending. The danger is all the other way. The decrying
of marriage cannot but lead many into the paths of Baal-Peor, the doctrine of Balaam and
the teaching of that woman Jezebel. George Bernard Shaw writes on page 666 of
John O' London's Weekly under the heading The Right to Motherhood:--
"No political constitution will ever succeed unless it includes the recognition of an
absolute right to sexual experience, and is untainted by the Pauline or romantic view of
such experience as simple in itself . . . . . legalizing polygamy, because there are more
adult women in the country than men."